Narrated Aisha (RA):
When the Prophet ﷺ got the news of the death of Ibn Haritha, Jafar and Ibn Rawaha he sat down and looked sad and I was looking at him through the chink of the door. A man came and told him about the crying of the women of Jafar. The Prophet ﷺ ordered him to forbid them. The man went and came back saying that he had told them but they did not listen to him. The Prophet ﷺ said, "Forbid them." So again he went and came back for the third time and said, "O Allahs Apostle ﷺ ! By Allah, they did not listen to us at all." ( Aisha (RA) added): Allahs Apostle ﷺ ordered him to go and put dust in their mouths. I said, (to that man) "May Allah stick your nose in the dust (i.e. humiliate you)! You could neither (persuade the women to) fulfill the order of Allahs Apostle ﷺ nor did you relieve Allahs Apostle ﷺ from fatigue. "
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